Personality development

BBA, BCA, B.SC IInd year 

Vocational subject 

Trapti Bala Jakhetiya 

Unit 3 

Topic- social Intelligence 

 Development of social intelligence

The first signs of social intelligence in humans appear as early as the 6th week of life. At 18 months of age, babies can understand complex social cues and understand the intentions of others. As we grow up, our social environment becomes more complex and demanding, and it requires a sophisticated set of skills and abilities that don't come natural/to most people they need to be taught. Is required. As adults, most of us develop thes skills to some degree. We may have a broad idea of what it means to be socially skilled. Bu the ability to follow the rules of social life varies from person to person.

Examples of social intelligence:

Knowing when to talk and when to listen?

What to say and what to understand?

What to do in specific situations?

When to respond appropriately?

There are four aspects of social intelligence,

(1) Relationship Skills

(ii) social awareness

(iii) Self Awareness

(iv) Self Regulation

(i) Relationship Skills: - It is very important to have better relationship sk Relationship skills are essential for building and maintaining any social relationship. It he you strengthen your personal and social relationships. With relationship skills, achie success in life becomes much easier.

(i) Open Communication Skill:- Openness in communication is the foundatic any relationship. If your communication skills are not open, it leads to weakness in relat ships. In today's time, new forms of communication like text or email have complic relationships, creating more suspicion and less honesty. These forms of communication lead to various misunderstandings on the part of the individual. So you try to keep oper in communication to strengthen your relationship.

(ii) Non-Defensiveness:-(If you have the skill of non-defensiveness against any criticism or suggestion given by your partner) If there is any kind of matter in it, then look for the truth in it. This will open up many opportunities for change in

Font of you. (iii) Honesty: It is

is very important to have honesty in any relationship, without it. You cannot strengthen any relationship. Being honest is actually a skill that comes in handy nerywhere in your life If you want to bring love in your relationship, then cheating should not be used Lying, hiding something can spoil our relationship. Lying only creates distance and mistrust which most of the relationships spoil

(iv) Don't be Optimistic:- A person being more optimistic towards someone car arm him. This happens when we have high expectations from someone and he does not live to it, then you may have to bear the loss Being optimistic is not bad, but it has a limit mon't be so optimistic with someone that it affects your relationship. This has proved to be me most important aspect of relationship skills. In today's time, many relationships ge oiled because of this. Keep a positive attitude towards your friend, it gives you good results.

ii) Social Awareness: Awareness is the state of being aware of something. Specifi-cally, it is the ability to directly know and understand, feel or know about events. Social awareness is a very important need in the modern perspective, as many types of immorality are prevalent in the society The scope of these immoralities is so wide at this time that no section of the society whether rich, poor, rural or urban is untouched by it. Social awareness is the ability to understand and empathize with the viewpoints of other people from different backgrounds, cultures and contexts. When we are able to recognize the feelings of others, we are building a foundation for displaying empathy and compassion. Developing this important skill will help children build strong positive relationships in their school, home and community. An understanding of others' perspectives and recognizing just and unjust social norms will also help them make responsible decisions. With socialization comes the rein-forcement of other skills related to social emotional learning.

Empathy - Social awareness strengthens our ability to relate to how someone is feeling.

Appreciation for cultural difference and diversity - Our social awareness and empathy help us to connect with the world around us.

Strong team spirit - when adults and children are aware of the feelings and perspectives of those around them, working together as a team can be a sign of respect and strong communication.